Hello Dianne
I don't know if you will see this, but I hope my words find you.
I am in my 12 year now as a hospice volunteer - 3 different ones, actually.
I have often said that if in all that time, I only helped one person, then the entire effort would have been more than worthwhile.
Each person is special, precious, and loveable. Sometimes, they just need reminding. We can all do that.
Recently I thought, "Of the thousands of people that I have met through hospice, there must be a "Top 100" who made an extraordinary impact upon me? Is there a "Top 10"? If such a thing exists, then surely you and Doug are on that list, Dianne.
Being far into my "Golden Years", it is most likely that I will "see" Doug before you. I know that I will be welcomed by Doug with open arms as he says, "I love you, Michael for being there for my sweetie Dianne, when I couldn't be. Welcome home."