Dear Sadmama,
I begin by saying how very sorry I am that your 50 year old son died. How very difficult that must have been especially when it was sudden and it is your child.
Death is tremendously difficult. Your grief must still be so very raw. Six months is still very new.
Everyone's grief is different and everyone's grief is as it needs to be. Please try not to compare your grief to others as they do not know what you are going through and you do not know what they are going through. Grief is VERY personal. Everyone travels grief differently.
I lost my Mom and Dad 10 years and 5 years ago respectively. I would seriously say that I am only in this last year in an okay place again.
This website has excellent resources - articles, books, etc. There are online and in person grief support groups as well. You are able to share your grief with others also grieving. I find support groups so helpful. They let you know you are not alone.
Be gentle with yourself. This road is difficult. May your grief journey be real, unrushed and cleansing. May your son become a source of strength and love for you for your lifetime.
Take care.
Allyson