Hi Korie
I missed replying to your March 14th posting, sorry about that.
You said, “Thank you for virtually giving me permission to be here and to talk to you.”
To speak from your heart with a complete stranger takes courage.
The honour is all ours. As volunteers, we are honoured that you take us into your confidence and share your deepest thoughts and emotions. We will only support you, not judge you.
You stated that your eldest is in a state of denial. Oftentimes this is the only coping mechanism that works for some people. Everybody reacts differently.
In my volunteer work, I have had to learn how to accept this fact and not try to impose my views on others. I can share my views to give someone a different perspective but I can’t tell them what to think or feel.
Here's a good example: Sadly, you are thinking of cancelling your vacation, however, you laid out some excellent reasons why it might have to be postponed until your husband is well enough to travel.
I cannot tell you what to do, but I can support you in your decision.
Keep coming back to us, Korie. We are here for you.
- eKim