my condolences on the loss of your partner.
I've been a loner most of my life so I can scarcely imagine the hole such a loss must leave.
my heart goes out to you.
for what it's worth,
when my mom was 52 years old, she took her nurses training.
she worked as a nurse for a decade.
when she was 60, she learned to drive a car.
for what it's worth . . .